HOT ISSUE FOR THIS MONTH
This month the hot issue is Balancing For Long-Term Success.
There was a time when I thought a person had to have singular focus in order to be truly successful. i.e. Thomas Edison sleeping in his workroom, Mother Theresa living in the streets of Calcutta, Martin Luther King, Jr. concentrating solely on the civil rights movement and so on.
However, I realize today this is not the most effective approach for long-term success. What we bring to our work is who we are as individuals. This includes our intellect, our energy level, our ability to communicate, our demeanor and many other aspects. If we live narrow lives, then we bring a narrow life to our work. If we continually enrich ourselves mentally, socially, physically, spiritually, in our friendships, in our communities and in our family lives, then we bring a more complete person into our work. We have a broader level of understanding and insight to offer other people.
This theme of balance has come up over and over again for me:
Marshall Faulk, running back for the Fenton Rams, wins the NFL's MVP award primarily because he is such an extraordinarily balanced offensive player as a runner, receiver and blocker. He also balances his on the field efforts with his off the field community service.
In the film, Cast Away, Tom Hanks faces a rather unusual predicament. One of the many themes in this film is that he realizes what he gave up by being so fanatical about his work and the efficient use of his time.
In the book, On Writing, Stephen King wrote, "Put your desk in the corner, and every time you sit there to write, remind yourself why it isn't in the middle of the room. Life isn't a support-system for art. It's the other way around."
Recently, I experienced enormous back pain due to tension. The root cause was that I had spent the first two weeks of December trying to force things to happen: move traffic out of my way, accomplish a ludicrously high number of goals, and so on. Then I exacerbated the problem by using negative self-talk and telling myself what a moron I was for forgetting to check my cell phone before leaving for a meeting, for leaving my keys in the rental car, for (well you get the point.) The tension and related back pain went away when I relaxed and spent several days just being with my wife, playing with my daughter, seeing friends and attending several parties with my parents, in-laws, cousins, aunts and uncles.
What makes live worth living and increases the enjoyment we get out of life and the value we have to offer other people is the diversity of experiences, ideas and people in our lives. So I encourage you to take out your January schedule and start dropping in a diverse number of activities and meetings with a wide variety of people. Life is about more than just clients, customers and prospects. The richer our lives, the stronger and more valuable the slice of our life will be that we offer to any single person.
QUESTION FOR TOP PERFORMER
Here's this month's question:
You and your family have been looking forward to a week-long vacation in Florida for three months. Your boss comes to you three days before the vacation and says that he wants you at a very important client meeting next week in Seattle. You explain that you have vacation plans next week with your family. Your boss says, "I'll make it up to you." The last two times the boss said that he gave you a $2500 bonus, but no additional vacation time to make up for the time lost. In three weeks, you have your annual Performance Review and you know that you are in line for a promotion. What do you tell your boss?
RECOMMENDED RESOURCE OF THE MONTH
This month I'll step away from my usual business book (although I have some good ones for you next month) and recommend John Grisham's, The Partner. I could have selected any number of Grisham books or Sidney Sheldon books or a lot of other authors. My point is that a good mystery or suspense novel can take your mind away from the daily activities and let it roam around in a different world for awhile. This is a trick that my wife, Barb, taught me. Reading mystery novels helps me sleep better and be more refreshed for the next day's adventure.
Take care and have a great month and a happy new year!!!
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