RESOURCE RECOMMENDATION FOR TOP PERFOMERS
Of the five books I'm reading right now, the one that has impacted me the most is Stephen King's "On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft." First, his own story is truly remarkable and a great example of perseverance and how to overcome both adversity and success. Second, his thoughts on writing (which I think apply to verbal communication as well) are very clear and powerful. Here's one example from page 114:
"The bread of writing is vocabulary. In this case, you can happily pack what you have without the slightest bit of guilt and inferiority. As the whore said to the bashful sailor, 'It ain't how much you've got, honey, it's how you use it.'"
I agree with King. Too often people are working to develop a vocabulary that no one else understands in order to be impressive. Authors don't impress me when I have to put their book down every twenty minutes to look up a word in the dictionary. I suggest that you allow your vocabulary to expand naturally as you read more. However, I do suggest that you invest your time and energy into making sure that the IDEAS your vocabulary creates are of true value to other people and can be clearly understood.
An audiotape program that I enjoyed immensely was Katherine Graham's autobiography "Personal History." This tough and tender woman lays it all on the line in terms of what it took to sustain and grow the Washington Post through some very difficult times. I think you will enjoy it and learn from it.
Take care and have a great month and a happy new year!!!
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